James Clear Clears A Path Through Hump Day
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Thereās a reason they call it āHump Dayā.
Itās a familiar pattern. Someone with a few kilos to lose starts a diet on a Monday full of enthusiasm. A light breakfast, small lunch, healthy dinner, and a walk in the evening. He wakes up on Tuesday with a bit less enthusiasm. By Wednesday, heās disheartened and ready to fall back into bad habits. It takes at least three repetitions for habits to stick.
Which is why āHabit Stackingā is so powerful.
Even if youāve never heard of James Clear, or his bestseller āAtomic Habitsā, youāll see why āHabit Stacking works. James describes āhabit stackingā as:
āEvery time I do X (the existing part of my routine),
I will then do Y (the new thing I want to add to my routine).ā
For Man Shakers this can translate to āEvery time I wake up, before I have my shower, Iāll prepare up my Man Shake and put it in the fridge.ā This simple act means, that by the time youāre ready for breakfast, thereās less temptation to choose an unhealthy option. Youāre stacking a good habit on top of an existing habit.
And itās not just for breakfast. James Clear lays our four steps for creating good habits:
- Make it obvious ā Use an everyday cue, something you know you already do
- Make it attractive ā If you start to crave it, youāre less likely to quit it
- Make it easy ā Your response should never be to groan
- Make it satisfying ā Understand the reward for sticking to your new habit.
So, when you want to start a habit stack, the first step is āMake it obviousā. Find the right cue. So, when you think about your own routine, hereās where to start:
āTimeā Cues
Morning habits are a great place to start: Wake up, use the bathroom, take a shower, brush your teeth, and get dressed. You also find times during the day when you have a habit: Snack times, coffee breaks, and smoko. They all tend to happen at the same time, day after day.
By habit stacking on these moments (or replacing bad habits with good), youāre far more likely to get over the hump and make it part of your new routine.
āLocationā Cues
Have you ever walked into the kitchen, and the biscuit tin is ājust calling youā? Then you understand the power of location. The way to habit stack here is to change elements of the location. So, put the biscuit tin on a high shelf that takes effort to reach. Or put a bowl of Man Bars close to the kitchen entrance so you see them first.
āEventā Cues
This is where our behaviour follows an event ā it can be large or small. When youāre in public and you hear a phone buzz, you automatically look at yours. Itās a reflex. Habit stacking would be to tie a new habit to an existing event. So, if your footy team wins you go for a 2k walk. If they lose you make it 3k. The event drives the habit.
āOther Peopleā Cues
Itās no surprise that the mates you surround yourself play a role in your habits. Both good and bad. In fact, one recent medical study found, that if your friend becomes obese, your risk of obesity goes up 57%. So, if you find yourself behaving badly with a particular friend or group, the key is to see them less or in other ways. Meet for coffee, not in the pub. Go to the game instead of watching it together on TV.
As James says; āSelf-experimentation is the only real answer. Play around with these cues and see what works for you.ā
And remember, thereās no reason to start on a Monday. In fact, Wednesday is perfect.